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  • New Release: “This Is Me: A Guided Journal to Self-Discovery” is Live on Amazon!

    March 29, 2018
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    My newest release is now available on Amazon! This is Me is a guided journal to help readers figure out who they are and why they are the way they are. Inside you’ll find everything you need to create an all-encompass journal about you!

    I came up with the idea for This Is Me while I was on my own hunt for a self-discovery journal. I wanted to have all my information in one place; history, past, present, and future. But I was having no luck finding such a journal on Amazon. There were plenty of gratitude journals and self-discovery journals with random questions about you, but nothing that held everything and dug deep. That’s why I created this journal. It was more for myself than anything, but I hope that others can enjoy it as well!

    Family History: Small family tree, Heritage Chart, Family History Map, Family Heirloom Record, Family Military History, Family Descriptions, and Family Medical History.
    Childhood: birth to 5th grade: Memories, friends, things learned, Influential Discussions.
    Middle School: 6th-8th grade: Memories, friends, discussions, things learned.
    High School: 9th-12th grade: Memories, friends, romantic relationships, relationship insights, things learned, family memories.
    Young Adult: 18-29 years old: Memories, friends, romantic relationships, relationship insights, things learned, family memories, advice and lessons.
    Right Now: Who are you now? Friendships, love life, parenting
    About the author and journal

    If you would like to start your journey of self-discovery

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  • Recent Release: “This Is Me”: A Guided Journal to Self-Discovery

    March 28, 2018
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    I completed the interior and exterior designs of my latest non-fiction release titled “This Is Me” A Guided Journal to Self-Discovery. Right now it is under review, but I would love your feedback on the project before it is published.

    The Cover: With the cover design, I wanted something simple, pretty, but not too feminine since the journal can be used by men and women. That is why I chose a forest green and grey color. I really loved the purple-wine color, but I knew guys wouldn’t want to carry that around or be seen with it. Agree? I also didn’t put description on the back because how to use the journal is on the inside of the book and again, I wanted to keep it simple and peaceful looking. I also didn’t include an author photo, because really…who wants a photo of someone else on their own personal journal? Mistake I made on my Novel Notes journals.

    The size of the journal is 5.5X8.5″, which I’m a little on the fence about. My writing journals are 8X10″ and that’s a good size for writing at the desk, but for this journal I wanted something people could carry around. This is a good size for that, but now I’m not sure if it will be too hard to write in because it might be too small. Maybe should have done 6X9″. I’ll have to order a proof and see.

    The Interior: This journal encompasses everything I was looking for in a self-discovery journal. As a result it is 200 pages long. The categories inside include;

    Family History: Small family tree, Heritage Chart, Family History Map, Family Heirloom Record, Family Military History, Family Descriptions, and Family Medical History.
    Childhood: birth to 5th grade: Memories, friends, things learned, Influential Discussions.
    Middle School: 6th-8th grade: Memories, friends, discussions, things learned.
    High School: 9th-12th grade: Memories, friends, romantic relationships, relationship insights, things learned, family memories.
    Young Adult: 18-29 years old: Memories, friends, romantic relationships, relationship insights, things learned, family memories, advice and lessons.
    Right Now: Who are you now? Friendships, love life, parenting
    About the author and journal.

    When I went searching for a self-discovery journal they were either just full of random questions you fill out once a day, or they only touched on one or two of the subjects above. I wanted a journal that could be a record of me and my life: before me, my past, my present, and my hopes for the future. That’s why I built this one.

     

    Please post your opinions and comments about my upcoming new release “This Is Me: A Guided Journal to Self-Discovery” in the section below! I would love to hear from you.

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  • When Inspiration Strikes A Writer

    March 27, 2018
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    Sorry there was no blog post yesterday, but inspiration struck me and I got swept up in a book project. While I have about 20% of “Dead Road (Dead Soil book 2)” done, something else inspired me yesterday. I had two choices: ignore the inspiration and keep writing “Dead Road” or run with the inspiration and possibly fall behind on my current book. Luckily, the inspiration wasn’t to start another story, but rather create a self-discovery journal.

    Lately, I’ve been extremely interested in myself. I know that sounds self-centered, but hear me out. I want to know my history, where my family is from, my heritage. I ordered one of the Ancestry DNA tests. They just received it today! I’m nervous and excited to find out what I am and where my family is really from. All my life I’ve been told I’m 50% Greek, 25% German, 25% Polish. We’ll see if that’s true in a month or two. I also want to figure out why I am the way I am, so a lot of the journal is writing down memories and experiences and analyzing how they made me feel then and how they make me feel now, how they affected me in the long run. I think that will help to figure out why I have the quirks I do, the fears I do, the passion I do. Then, I realized that a lot of people might actually like a journal like that. It would be almost a complete history of that person up to the current point in their lives!

    So, that’s what I did all yesterday. I have about 175 pages of a self-discovery journal completed, but it will probably take a little longer to get it done fully. Right now there’s no pictures or anything, no quotes of inspiration, just questions and lines to fill in the answers, which is mostly what a guided journal is, but a lot of journalers want their journal to be pretty as well. Since this can be for men or women, I want to make sure I don’t make it too girly, but I don’t want it to be boring either. It’s a fine line.

     

    Is a self-discovery journal something you would be interested in? Have you ever filled one out before? Share your self-discovery journey below in the comments section!

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  • Writer Habits: To Curse or Not to Curse

    March 23, 2018
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    This is a choice every author will have to face in their career. It’s an important choice too, even though it might not seem like it. I thought I would share my journey with this choice in hopes that it helps you.

    When I started writing, I started with The Chronicles of a Supernatural Huntsman series.

     

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    This series was meant to be enjoyed by young adults and adults. The main character is in her early twenties and befriends adult teens while being the eldest at the Huntsman school. Given my audience, I decided it was best to stick with soft-curses aka damn and hell. I didn’t want to turn audiences away with harsher words, but felt they could handle those two well.

    My next book was “Girls Like Us” and I decided with this one that it was going to be no-holds-bar. I wouldn’t hold anything back. If I felt the character would throw out an f-bomb, then she would. This meant the book could only be read by true adults, and probably wasn’t for young adults. I kind of regret this, because it would have been a good learning story for young adults to see the consequences of their choices through Triss. So be careful with your choices. The curses can always be edited out in later editions, but the ones with them with always be out there.

     

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    After “Girls Like Us” I felt liberated. I thought that I wrote what I wanted with no worries about what certain people would think when they read it, like my mom or dad. I wasn’t holding anything back and I was being myself. Now, in real life, curse words rarely slipped from my lips. Soft ones mostly. So, in reality, I was not being true to myself at all, but once again writing what I thought people wanted to read. I continued to do with my next few books, which were zombie action/thriller/horror. I thought Horror readers don’t want softness. They want in your face raunch. So, that’s what I went for. I love the gore in the stories because I feel it is true to the situation the people go through, but I don’t feel all the cursing was necessary, except in the character Lonnie Lands. He was based on an actual person I knew, and the cursing was a big part of who this person was. But if you decide to add the hard curse words, best to do it in character and not in the narrative writing.

     

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    The next series I started (I know! Too many unfinished series here! It’s my weakness) was a funny “what happens when the zombies are cured” novella called Zooey Zombie series. This one had the softer curses, mostly coming from the lips of the characters, and I think this is the happy medium and the rule most authors should follow to attract a wider audience (unless you’re writing for children, of course!)

     

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    Right now I’m working on the second installment of the “Dead Soil” series. The book is called “Dead Road” and it continues the journey of the characters from the first novel whom survived. I’m being more mindful of where I place my curse words, and what kind I use. I’m leaving all of them out of the narrative and leaving it to the characters and their personalities to dictate how many damns, hells, and possibly sh*ts they throw around. These books are meant for an older audience, but at the same time I don’t want to compromise my own values. It’s a thin line to walk. I know my characters aren’t me. They are their own people, living and breathing inside me. They may have different morals and values than me, but there has to be a point to it.

     

    What’s your stand on using curse words in your novels, or if you’re a reader what do you think of curse words in the books you read?

     

    Leave your comments below. I’d love to hear from you!

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  • Writer Habits: Burnt Out

    March 22, 2018
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    I know everyone is different and I shouldn’t feel bad about being a little burnt out on blogging and writing after doing it 5 days a week consistently for only three weeks. Maybe that’s just me. Write three weeks, take a few days off. But what did I do with my two days of not writing when I should have been? I definitely didn’t get up early to do my morning yoga and squats. I got extra sleep! I spent a lot of time with my boyfriend and our daughter, mainly because we were doing some hard parenting for that non-listener, fake fit thrower. I read more in the bible (since I’m trying to make it through the entire book and I’m only 45% through the old testaments, I try to do a little every day.) I read more in Game of Thrones book 2. I felt exhausted. I worked extra hard to get through my list of lost customers at work (my job to get them back in, and I’m tired of looking at this stinking list). But after two days I realized I missed it! I want to write. And that’s when I realized there’s no point in beating myself up when my body and mind tell me to take a break. I’m not being lazy. I’m regenerating! Writing is hard work. I know it may not seem like it most of the time, for some of us it flows right out of our fingers without missing a beat, but your brain is still performing at high speeds to crunch out those amazing stories and that puts stress on you and your body. Your neck and shoulders tense, your legs cramp from sitting, your hands hurt in the night, your head hurts from staring at a computer screen…you need a break!

    How do you know when it’s time to take a short siesta from writing? And how do you know when it’s time to go back?

    For me, I’m going to try to stay in-tune with my mind and body more to know when it needs a break. It feels much better than pushing myself too hard. I’d rather take two days off here and there than another year! And I’m also not pushing myself as hard when I do write. I used to demand 2k words a day, six to seven days a week. Now, if I get 500 words done a day, that’s fine. I still get 2k some days, 1k others, but there’s no demand anymore. I do what feels right and it works so much better than way! It will get done. I have to remind myself sometimes that I’m not a NY TIMES bestselling author. No one is biting their nails, sitting on the edge of their seat waiting for my next book to come out. Sure, I have people already wanting to read it, but it’s not a dire situation. There’s no deadline. I’m in charge and my sanity and health is more important. How about you?

    Leave your thoughts below in the comments section. I would love to hear from you!

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